22.8.09

This shall too pass away...

What do you do when your world, which was perfect a while ago comes down crashing like a pack of cards? You start getting a feeling,' This is the end of me. I can't go any further. I have given up.' You get up from sleep with a start, when you see a dark tunnel with no light at the end of it. Life is so fickle. It tricks you, when you have least expected it.
Let me tell you a story.
Once a Monarch called upon his wisemen and asked them, 'Is there any Mantra or suggestion, which works in joy and sorrow, in defeat and victory alike? All the wisemen were confused, except for an old man who gave the Monarch a piece of folded paper with a condition that it must be opened only in the time extreme danger i.e. when the King feels he has ran out of solutions. The Monarch puts the paper under his daimond ring. Days pass and the neigbouring Kingdom attacks and the King loses and runs for his life all alone. Suddenly he finds himself at the end of the road. With a deep valley ahead and the sound of the horses approaching, he was sure that his end had dawned. The Monarch becomes restless. Then he remembers the folded paper given to him by the old man. He opens it and reads. The paper bears,'THIS DAY SHALL TOO PASS AWAY.' He reads it again and again. He realises that a few days ago he enjoyed all the pleasures of the world. And today he has nothing with him. Just like the days of luxuries the day of danger will pass away too. A calm comes to his face. After a few minutes, the noise of the horses receeds. He realises they have moved into some other part. The brave Monarch reorganises his army, fights back and reconquers his Kingdom.
The King did not give up. He conquered the darkest period of his life because he believed in himself. Had he jumped off the cliff he would have never got his Kingdom back. So my friend when faced with such a situation, the key lies in picking up the broken pieces and starting afresh with whatever little you have got. You are just a witness of change. Experience it, understand it and enjoy the present moment- as this shall too pass away. Ensure that every change whether good or bad leaves you stronger.
Whatever may be the obstacles in your life, however big, medium, small they may be, they will pass one day and you will come out more confident, mature and shinning.

14.8.09

Why???

  • Why are people selfish?
  • Why should you not expect the other person to be a little responsible, when you are yourself responsible?
  • Why can't things go as planned?
  • Why do things go wrong, just when you thought they were set right?
  • Why can't a dependent voice his/her views?
  • Why is one seen in bad light if he/she puts his/her foot down for the right reasons?
  • Why is every stage of your life governed by dirty politics?
  • Why do people small talk and sweet talk?
  • Why is it false to be true?
  • Why does reasoning differ from person to person?
  • Why is truth so subjective?
  • Why doesn't a perfect code of right and wrong exists?
  • Why one has to die to attain peace for eternity?
  • Why is trust so fickle?
Questions after Questions! Looks like I ll never find the answers.
Yet, that does not stop my pursuit of happiness. Rather I am happy I am true to my conscience. This Birthday, I make 3 promises to myself.
Come what may, my smile will never fade.
I ll never give up.
I ll love myself more than ever.

1.8.09

Friday!

The week begins and I start waiting for Fridays. On Friday evenings there is this blissful feeling of happiness and relief. Similarly on Sunday evenings I experience a strange kind of sadness. Monday mornings are horrible and cranky. Tuesdays are just plain and fine. On Wednesdays the excitement starts piling up as 2 wickets are already down and there are just 2 more to go. Thursdays go in anticipation of Fridays. And when Fridays come, the formals are dumped into the closet and a comfortable tee and a pair of jeans sneak out, already bringing on the weekend. Saturdays are spent in sleeping, browsing the net, watching TV, etc. Sundays creep in with the dreary feeling of Mondays and the wait for the next Friday begins all over again. Week after week the same cycle! I bet its the same everywhere. Life has become a routine, but it is not really monotonous. Everyday brings in new challenges along with a new a ray of hope, suggesting life is going to be better going forward. Life has changed and it is for the good. And Fridays are always 'GOOD'.